I am aware of his use of pills in the past, (recent past), I do not agree with drug use and have been trying to help him stop. Well he lost his job not long ago and he was working with pill user's thank God that's over! Well now he's out of state working and only comes home every couple of weekends. The crew he works with some may use and other's are known for using drugs (different ones). I just have this bad feeling and bad dreams about him doing drugs. I don't want to be married to someone who uses, and I do not want that influence for our daughters.
I want to drug test him when he comes home next weekend, and if anything other than pills shows up (that's all Im currently aware of) then that will determine a lot of things right now. Please give an answer, and don't be mean I am in a really tough situation in my marriage and need to better my families life.
Asked by Anonymous at 10:36 AM on Aug. 23, 2009 in Relationships
Answer by treynlisa at 10:54 AM on Aug. 23, 2009
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Answer by Anonymous at 10:47 AM on Aug. 23, 2009
Cheating, smoking, drinking alcohol, and taking drugs are all addictions. He has to stop on his own. You can encourage him and be supportive. But you can not make him quite. Testing him is not the way to go. You know he is an addict. You need to deside if you want to keep dealing with this or not.
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