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TMi but need help!

im 2 days shy of 38 weeks and my husband claims he doesn't want to have sex because its gotten tighter and he doesn't feel he fits lol. he said he feels something in there. is this common?

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Anonymous

Asked by Anonymous at 10:22 PM on Aug. 24, 2009 in Pregnancy

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  • Yeah, it's normal. Things are changing down there and I'm sure he can feel the changes.
    javila

    Answer by javila at 10:27 PM on Aug. 24, 2009

  • my hubby says it does change down there and it feels firmer and like there could be something there that wasn't before, he says it never got uncomfortable just different, maybe your guys just doesn't like the change
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 10:27 PM on Aug. 24, 2009

  • YES ITS VERY NORAM FROM THE BABY PUTTING PRESSURE AND STUFF.
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 10:28 PM on Aug. 24, 2009

  • It's swollen in there, but what he feels is just the outside of the cervix and the vaginal walls. He doesn't feel the mucus plug or the amniotic sac or anything like that. Sex is perfectly safe. Just don't have sex after your water breaks. He'll fit in there fine, it's just a little swollen. If you can fit a child through there, you can fit a penis through there.
    sweetmoonem

    Answer by sweetmoonem at 10:30 PM on Aug. 24, 2009

  • yeah, it's common. Tell him to rub "the nub" then. You need to stay relaxed.
    admckenzie

    Answer by admckenzie at 10:46 PM on Aug. 24, 2009

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