My husband and I have been together for 14 years (met when we were 19). We were probably about the same level in looks back then. But he hasn't been taking care of himself, and now that he's in his 30's it is starting to catch up to him. I stopped smoking several years ago and eat healthy and exercise regularly and it shows in my looks. I appear approximately 5 years younger than him (even though I am actually a few months older). I think there is a definite difference in our level of looks these days and I can't imagine how much more so in another 5 years if he doesn't start taking better care of his appearance.