I'm seeing this guy and he's really different than any guy I've ever dated. He's not lazy in the sense that he won't work, he's worked the same, very demanding, physcial job for years. When he comes home he mows, cleans, and just basically does what needs to be done around his house. When it comes to our relationship though, he is lazy. It's not just with me, his best friend told me thats how he's always been, with every girlfriend he's ever had. I know he likes me, and likes having me there, and talking to me, but I have to do the calling most of the time. He has assured me that he just never was the one to call and things like that. I really REALLY care about him, and it really doesn't bother me that much, I was just curious if anyone else has dated someone like this?Answer Question
Asked by Anonymous at 8:45 AM on Aug. 26, 2009 in Relationships
My DH was like that in the beginning. And he will say to this day.. he just HATES PHONES. LOL Is the phone/phone call the only issue? If so.. that can be worked out.
Answer by LyTe684 at 8:47 AM on Aug. 26, 2009
Answer by missanc at 8:51 AM on Aug. 26, 2009
missanc, no she said it's just calling. She did say he likes her and likes having her around. The problem seems to be that she has to call HIM most of the time.
"I know he likes me, and likes having me there, and talking to me, but I have to do the calling most of the time"
Answer by LyTe684 at 8:54 AM on Aug. 26, 2009
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