What role your husband, boyfriend, signifacant other ect. play in your hom???
My husband works full-time to take care of me and our daughter , which I appreciate) but he feels that his responsibility ends there. He does not clean, (not even after himself, One day I found finger nail clippings left on our coffee table and he always leaves his plate on the table for me after he's done eating sometimes overnight) he expects me to get up EVERY morning to make him breakfast, as if it will kill him to do it himself every once in a while. We have a 1 year old daughter and I am her primary caregiver he never helps with feeding, bathing, diapering, nothing !!! but then wants to get mad he our daughter crawls over his head to get to me. It is really pissing me off. We just had a fight about our basement we have people coming in town it looks like a train wreck but he will not lift a finger to help clean it, it's all his mess BTW
Asked by Anonymous at 12:19 PM on Aug. 26, 2009 in Relationships
Answer by mirit.rose at 12:22 PM on Aug. 26, 2009
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Answer by wheresthewayout at 12:51 PM on Aug. 26, 2009
I find it to be very disrespectful to you that he leaves his messes for you to clean up. You are not a maid or his mother. I believe as a SAHM it is your job to clean, laundry, take care of the kids while he is gone. Should he have to come home and do his own laundry or cook his own dinner no, but should he get off his butt and walk his plate to the sink? YES!! He should participate in the family even if he does work long hours. Your hours never stop I would talk to him and explain that he needs to pick after himself and that when he doesn't it makes your work harder.
Answer by abellvalerie at 1:04 PM on Aug. 26, 2009
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