if my man cheated on me,and slept with a black girl when we first got together should i hold it against him its already been a year for us?Answer Question
Asked by Anonymous at 7:07 PM on Aug. 26, 2009 in Relationships
Answer by gdiamante at 7:09 PM on Aug. 26, 2009
Answer by SGMAMI at 7:12 PM on Aug. 26, 2009
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Answer by SGMAMI at 7:20 PM on Aug. 26, 2009
Answer by admckenzie at 8:18 PM on Aug. 26, 2009
None of it matters if you were together or the color of the other woman. It does not matter that you weren't "THAT" into each other. What matters is that you accepted his actions, said you forgave him. If you honestly forgave him then you would not hold it over his head, no matter how long it has been. You need to look at the whole picture. Has he cheated since then? Has he shown any sign that he is cheating or did cheat? If he is then you should get over him and move on with your life. If not, and you really want to be with him, then you need to really get over the past. Focus on the present and dream of the future. Now, just because you forgave him does not mean that you can not be cautious, just don't keep bringing it up. This WILL ruin what relationship you have left to work on. Good luck.
Answer by krissyvelazquez at 8:40 PM on Aug. 26, 2009
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