So, I am a grown woman I pay my bills on time, I have great credit, I saved my husband’s credit, I have been raising a well mannered happy daughter and I am plain and simply a grown woman. Well, I suggested to my husband that I would like a cat or kitten from the shelter, he literally before I finished my sentence said “NO!”, that really really irks me, I feel as though he is not leveling with me, and making decisions for me as though I’m a child. What would you do in my situation, do you think its right for him to be the deciding factor? Do you think that he is being overly controlling, I respect one of his reasons for not wanting a cat, but it is not even remotely close to being enough for me to just be told no… Thoughts?Answer Question
Asked by Anonymous at 6:21 AM on Aug. 27, 2009 in Just for Fun
Answer by cassie_kellison at 6:41 AM on Aug. 27, 2009
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Answer by ourbabykins at 7:01 AM on Aug. 27, 2009
OP here, I want to add that we have talked a little bit since he got home today(we are on a different time zone) and he was adamant in that he didn't want one, however I feel like the fact that he is home very little because of work and it would make me happy to have one that he should at least consider it. He will not be taking care of the cat at all maybe giving it food every now and then, he isn't home enough to take care of it, I do absolutely everything for my husband and I'm happy to, but I feel as though I'm not getting the credit I deserve and I feel like it's mostly my call considering I'm the caregiver and the one who is home and takes care of the house.
Answer by Anonymous at 7:05 AM on Aug. 27, 2009
Answer by ourbabykins at 7:15 AM on Aug. 27, 2009
OP here, He is gone at work for 16-20hrs a day, he is a doctor in training and attending college at the same time, he is always at work I get lonely... My daughter is great but I would like something that doesn't talk back LOL
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