Okay this is for all those wonderful step moms that have been raising their step kids as their own. I have been raising mine for the past 5 years.. I have a 7yr old sd and a 10 yr ss. The "bio Mom" has been a sore in my side for the past 5 years. When will she ever give up the fantasy that Im not going anywhere!? My sd was in tears yesterday she told me she just got back from her mom this past weekend and her mom was telling her to never call me mom , to not mind me be real bad, and don't like me. ITs weird her mom asks her every weekend like how was it at my name..'s house . I mean shouldnt she be asking how is it at your dads house?! or your house!? The problem is the girl is crazy and is always trying to tell me how thank ful she is of me and how wonderful i am to the kids..meanwhile she has been brainwashing just the daughter to hate my guts... do i just continue being nice to here (crazy mom)!? what!!? its not fairAnswer Question
Asked by Anonymous at 9:36 AM on Aug. 27, 2009 in General Parenting
Answer by okc-mom-2 at 9:44 AM on Aug. 27, 2009
IMO, If you and there Dad ever divorce. You will be out of there(the step kids) lives. But the bio mom will always be there a there mom. So I say just deal with her. She is not going to be out of there lives. Just tell the kids you love them and move on. Your DH should be dealing with his EX.
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