I had confided in him that JUST ONE TIME, had a one night stand w/ a woman. I was confused at the time, going through a divorce...& for some reason, a man was the last thing on my mind. Anyhow, after i told him this he confided in me, that he has masturbated to gay porn before. Now, at the time i played it cool because i was totally falling for him. But, now that we have been together forever, it makes me wonder. I often find that our computer history has been cleared, & he does not seem as interested in sex w/ me as he used too. So, i get paraniod. MAYBE he is looking at regular porn, but i often wonder if he looks at gay men porn. It just freaks me out. I guess i had my share of experimentation, on a drunken night. But, it just weirds me out knowing that my husband could get an erection from watching gay porn...most men would go limp..i think. Does anyone think this is normal? Would you worry?
Asked by Anonymous at 10:48 AM on Aug. 28, 2009 in Relationships
Answer by heather.darin at 11:01 AM on Aug. 28, 2009
Answer by louise2 at 10:59 AM on Aug. 28, 2009
Answer by admckenzie at 11:00 AM on Aug. 28, 2009
Answer by kimigogo at 11:04 AM on Aug. 28, 2009
That is what i thought admckenzie. I would never leave my love over something like this. I have thought many times "maybe it's just the nature of it that made become erect" and maybe, since it's taboo...there is something exciting about it. I can easily watch two woman go at it & get turned on, so why is it different if he is a guy? I'm not sure....i guess because society has made it seem that way. Funny how woman can be turned on by watching lesbians make love, and they don't have to be gay....but if a man gets a woody from it...he is automatically a gay dude. Strange i guess...i don't really think he is gay...but it certainly does make me wonder if he is curious. I know him like i know myself though, & i HIGHLY doubt that he would actually perform w/a nother guy. So, maybe I'm answering my own question....lol! Thanks ladies!
Answer by Anonymous at 11:07 AM on Aug. 28, 2009
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Answer by kimigogo at 11:13 AM on Aug. 28, 2009
Answer by louise2 at 11:24 AM on Aug. 28, 2009
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Answer by evelynwest at 1:22 PM on Aug. 28, 2009