I have been with my SO for going on four years now. He works at Stater Bros. market and this week he was working from 3pm til 11pm. Last week he asked me if I wanted to go with him to T.G.I.Friday's with him and a few co-workers. I went, we had a good time, we came home. Last night, apparently, he went back to T.G.I.Friday's with the same group. I didn't get a call inviting me, no big deal, but I didn't get a text either saying where he was. Then, at 3:30 am I wake up to no SO next to me. I panic and call his cell phone. He says he is at his friend's house down the street, drinking. When he answered the phone I was relieved he was alive and ok. The thing that set me off was the fact that I didn't get a text or a call saying that he was going out after work. I really don't care if he goes out after work, I usually get updates if something is preventing him from coming straight home from work or if he is going out with friends.Answer Question
Answer by TarLion at 1:31 PM on Aug. 28, 2009
Answer by evelynwest at 1:33 PM on Aug. 28, 2009
Are you sure he's "just" out with his "friends" ? You should investigate this situation more....
Answer by katsogrimey at 1:38 PM on Aug. 28, 2009
Answer by Anonymous at 1:55 PM on Aug. 28, 2009
Answer by Laila-May at 1:57 PM on Aug. 28, 2009
I have gone through this, and the only thing I have ever asked for is that he lets me know what is going on. There is nothing worse than waking up at 1 am and not knowing where your SO is. It is the worse thing to wonder what is going on. If he is hurt or in jail. I hate that. You have every right to be upset. He kept telling me that he was sorry, but it kept happening. One day I left without saying a word. I took the kids out to eat and to the park. It was past dark when I got back, and he was worried. This taught him to let me know what his plans are, no matter how small they are. It is all about respect. I hope he wakes up and doesn't do this again.
Answer by krissyvelazquez at 2:01 PM on Aug. 28, 2009
You need to nip it in the bud now that it is just starting or it will get worse he will be those types of guys that have to stop by the bar before coming home oh hell no not for me.
Mine comes straight home from work...As far as you are not minding it right now you will soon mind it will get so old you are going to want out of the realationship girl you better do something now or for get it...GL
Answer by Anonymous at 2:27 PM on Aug. 28, 2009
Answer by baboosmom at 2:36 PM on Aug. 28, 2009
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