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Would you ever forgive your SO for you cheating on you?

why or not? honestly.


Asked by PURPULbutterfly at 8:48 PM on Aug. 28, 2009 in Relationships

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Answers (13)
  • No. I would never trust him again and I wouldn't want him after that.

    Answer by JulieJacobKyle at 9:04 PM on Aug. 28, 2009

  • Yes. Because the flesh is weak. There are so many putas out there. Also gigilos. I honestly think you should give your so or hubby a pass, unless it becomes a thing........

    Answer by Anonymous at 8:50 PM on Aug. 28, 2009

  • I expect him to keep his promises, including "forsaking all others"

    Answer by rkoloms at 8:51 PM on Aug. 28, 2009

  • No, Why?! I don't want a DIRTY DICK or an STD'S

    Answer by Anonymous at 8:53 PM on Aug. 28, 2009

  • I would still love him. I would still want to be with him... but if he slept with someone else behind my back I would be so hurt and betrayed. I would try to forgive him and stay together, but I don't know if I could ever get over it.

    Answer by Ati_13 at 9:09 PM on Aug. 28, 2009

  • Happened to me. I still love him bt if he loved me he wouldnt of cheated. The pain of the lies and the mistrust were too much, it didnt work out.

    Answer by NightOwlMama at 9:31 PM on Aug. 28, 2009

  • Remember that your SO is officially a single man. He has taken no vows to forsake all others so imo it's not cheating. My SO and I have an open relationship. I know I can't stop him from being with other women so what I do is do my best to make him want to be with me instead of others. I think it's my duty to work hard to make him want to not be with others so yes I forgive him when he's with others. I just work harder to strengthen the relationship.

    Answer by admckenzie at 10:45 PM on Aug. 28, 2009


    Answer by incarnita at 10:58 PM on Aug. 28, 2009

  • Depended on the situation. I would like to say that I would forgive him. BUT...all situations are different. BUT...i could never forgive if it happened more than once or if it was something i found out on my own..or worse by someone else...

    Answer by firewinky38 at 11:08 PM on Aug. 28, 2009

  • Roles were reversed for us and he forgave and we went to counseling. Things are wonderful

    Answer by oddballj at 1:33 AM on Aug. 29, 2009