I dont really know, because Im not a stay at home mom. I went back to work when my daughter was 2 mths old, but Im a teacher so I am out for the summer and this summer I went crazy being home all day with my dd.
Have you tried making a routine for yourself, kinda like a daycare. Like have a nap time, a art time, a story time so that it becomes routine and it keeps the kid active. This summer I was very busy, I had my daughter in storytime at the local library every Tuesday and she had free gym day or thursdays and mondays and art class at Gymboree on Fridays and swim lessons on Saturdays. On the days we didnt do anything I would take her to the park, out to eat, to the mall or even find an art project or something for her to do. You have to keep yourself busy because it will get harder with two babies.
Do you ever get some free time. Like going to a movie or out to dinner with your friends.
at 11:00 PM on Aug. 28, 2009