I was planning a really good day with my step-daughter toady. I was taking her back to school shopping, to a movie, get our nails done and do a nice lunch. She informed me that she was not with me to spend time with me, but to only by clothes. So I took her shopping and came straight back home. Her real mother passed away 5 years ago and I am really trying to do the right thing. What would you have done?
Honestly I would have gone ahead and went to lunch and got her nails done. You have to understand that she still hurts and has feelings and may be very scared to let anybody else in due to the fact that nobody can replace her mother and she may be afraid that she will forget her mother! You need to make it clear that you are not her mother and can not ever take her place and maby she will let you in! I have a step DD that lives so I kinda know what you are going through but her mom is not deceased but has nothing to really do with her! It will be hard but things will fall in place! Explain that you are not her mom but you are a parent figure to her and if she ever needs anything that she can come to you! Good luck hon just dont give up on her. I could not imagine losing my mother!
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Answer by PURPULbutterfly at 8:38 PM on Aug. 29, 2009
I would have told her here's your clothes and I had a nice day wish we could have done what i had planned but, you wanted to be a selfish little bitch. Know go to your room and I will let you know when you can come out for dinner. Then she can eat and go right back to her room and goodnight. I would also have her father have a little chat with her about the way she has been a VERY DISRESPECTFUL young lady.
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Answer by Anonymous at 8:59 PM on Aug. 29, 2009
It's sad but she shouldn't treat you that way or be selfish. Sounds like she was taking advantage because of her mothers passing. I would have done nothing after she said that. 13-17 is enough to know better and they know how to play on people emotions.
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