What do you do when you are almost 19 and your mom can't let go? My mom insists on having control over my life...she cries and yells because she "doesn't have control over anything." It hurts me to see her hurting but she has got to stop.
She blames herself for every "mistake" that I make. She blames herself because I got pregnant at 18. Now she won't let me make my own decisions without threatening to disown me and kick me out if I make the one she doesn't agree with. I don't want to disappoint her but this decision I'm trying to make is a HUGE one and while the choice I'm leaning to is not necessarily a perfect choice and I see her side to...it's something that I feel I have to do. If I don't choose the choice I want to then I will lose something very important to me and give up my morals. But If I go against her...I lose her and my family...Why does she have to do this to me? Why does she have to make me choose???
Asked by Anonymous at 11:34 PM on Aug. 29, 2009 in Relationships
Answer by Anonymous at 11:37 PM on Aug. 29, 2009
Answer by mirit.rose at 11:46 PM on Aug. 29, 2009
go with your heart. my mother is almost the same way.i moved across country and it drives her nuts..but they even go as far as getting into my email accounts and reading everything and etc just to be up in my life..i confronted them finally on this and told them im not a little girl anymore I'm grown married and have a dd..i need to live my own life back off..and i got told i was dead to her. so i understand but now i have the freedom of knowing i don't have to please her. some family members don't need to be in our lives because they are toxic. not saying your mom is but. its your time to fly. you have your own daughter now who if this chance is to be with her father than do it. follow what YOU want not what your mother wants. good luck
Answer by Anonymous at 11:47 PM on Aug. 29, 2009
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