My mom and I were close growing up, she was a single mom and we had a lot of time just the two of us. When she met my stepdad things got rocky between us but then we were good again until I started dating. Now that I've gotten pregnant at 18 and will possibly be getting married, she has threatened to "sever her ties" with me completely and kick me out of the house. It's funny because until the marriage thing is brought up...we are fine, we go out to eat together, go shopping, talk, joke, etc. but then as soon as something about me getting married is mentioned she blows up.
What's your relationship like with your mom? Good, bad, rocky? Did your mom ever threaten to disown you? what for? did she really?
Answer by admckenzie at 12:55 AM on Aug. 30, 2009
Answer by looovemybabies at 12:55 AM on Aug. 30, 2009
have you asked your mother why the thought of you getting married upsets her so much? If not you should and if she hasn't said why, keep asking until she does.
Answer by soonmommyof3 at 12:55 AM on Aug. 30, 2009
Answer by CrystalJanie at 12:56 AM on Aug. 30, 2009
Answer by javila at 1:03 AM on Aug. 30, 2009
Answer by Dom123123 at 1:10 AM on Aug. 30, 2009
Answer by Mamaof2boys0709 at 1:34 AM on Aug. 30, 2009
Answer by BJoan at 11:21 AM on Aug. 30, 2009
My mom and I were not very close when I was growing up because she and my dad had me live with my aunt they had 4 other kids and finances were tight because my dad became disable just before I was born (while my mom was preggers) and they were not able to support all of us on my mom's paycheck, when I was about 12 my parents had me move back in with them because they could take care of me and I was getting into alot of trouble at my aunts, My momma and I still didnt see eye to eye. But I became pregnant at 15 with my oldest son and she stood by me never made me feel bad for my choice to keep and try to raise my son and supported me emotionally. Now that I am a adult with a family of my own (the same size my own mother had) I can see what she has done for me and why she made the hard choices she made as far as having me live and be raised somewhere else, she wanted the best life for me I could have one she couldnt give me.
Answer by JennieHudson510 at 11:51 AM on Aug. 30, 2009
Answer by JulieJacobKyle at 12:28 PM on Aug. 30, 2009