i was with my boyfriend from 5pm until 1am today. today is my birthday, and my boyfriend of 2 years didn't get me anything.
he works whenever he wants (family business) and gets paid (the days he works).
5 days ago, he worked, blew his money out with his boys, food, and a little at the casino.
i didn't have a problem with it, it was his money.
but today is my birthday, he didn't get me a card, or a present or take me anywhere. it hit 12am and he was just like happy birthday.
i was very disappointed because i tried really hard to make him happy for his birthday and i know the reason is because he is low on money but don't you think at least he could have put a little effort into trying to make me happy.
am i being selfish?
Asked by Anonymous at 3:13 AM on Aug. 30, 2009 in Relationships
Answer by outstandingLove at 3:20 AM on Aug. 30, 2009
Answer by LuvmyFam6 at 3:26 AM on Aug. 30, 2009
Men remembering, card, present, dinner, something just don't go in the same sentence. I don't know what the problem is but, My man ALWAYS forgets so yes I get my own gifts and wrap them and open them in front of him. Nothing ever clicks so it is a fight that us women are never gonna win.
Answer by Anonymous at 3:32 AM on Aug. 30, 2009
no you are not being selfish whats so ever. I think "his a man" is an excuse. I hear a lot of women complaining cuz there dh don't help or what not, and other women answer "he is a man "blah blah blah, we don't get an excuse why should men.
By the way my hubby has never forgot my B-day or our anniversary, he has forgot his B-day one time but never mine
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