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is it cheating on ur hubby to talk to a guy ?

i have been talking to this guy on the internet ..and i was wondering if u think that is cheating i dunno . this man makes me feel like somethin other then my hubby what do u think?

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Asked by Anonymous at 10:38 AM on Aug. 30, 2009 in Relationships

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  • its is not cheating until you have unpure thoughts regarding this other guy then yes it is

    Answer by peytonJJ27 at 10:41 AM on Aug. 30, 2009

  • Sounds like your heart is wandering!

    Unless this guy is a personal/mutual friend of you and your HUSBAND, it would be considered at minimum flirtatious! And flirting is indicative of other intentions!

    Remember on the internet, people can "transform" themselves into any kind of person they want to be--when in reality could be quite different! Some people are masters at telling you what you want to hear, feel, believe--its easy when you are not face to face!

    If this guy makes you feel better than your husband does, then you need to log off the computer, and start "talking" to your husband to address and fix what is broken in your relationship! Avoiding your real life problems solves nothing, and you may lose everything in the end.

    Answer by LoriKeet at 10:42 AM on Aug. 30, 2009

  • If ur starting to fall for him then u should stop!! If ur husband is doing like he's suppose to as in making u feel happy and loved then u dont need the internet guy!!If the guy ur talkn to makes u feel better than ur husband u need to give ur marriage another thought and try to fix whats missing.If ur just talkn as friends and no feelings nvolved then its harmless.

    Answer by glasscock_laura at 10:44 AM on Aug. 30, 2009

  • if your looking to vent. The best person to seek is a girlfriend. when your so emotional about whatever it may be especially if it has something to do with your husband, it's best to vent to a girl friend. Sharing with a man can start to feel intimate than venting. It is much safer for you to talk to your girlfriends because all you needed is to get things off your shoulder and not to create something else. You said yourself, that man is making feel something. Don't play with fire if you do not want to get burn.

    Answer by Anonymous at 10:45 AM on Aug. 30, 2009

  • u se hubby is never home and when he is he rather be with his friend. i have talked to him so much my hubby that is about how i feel i am so lost

    Answer by Anonymous at 10:54 AM on Aug. 30, 2009

  • I fully agree with LoriKeet it's all the internet and ppl even on here can be soemthing they aren't in real life. Guys know how to play u and if you so much as told him you're not happy w/dh then yes it is cheating IMO . I would try and find a girlfriend to talk to.

    Answer by Anonymous at 11:17 AM on Aug. 30, 2009

  • i dont have any friends like that

    Answer by Anonymous at 11:19 AM on Aug. 30, 2009

  • no it's not cheating

    Answer by admckenzie at 11:24 AM on Aug. 30, 2009

  • It's not cheating yet, but I have to agree with the other ladies. If you're heart is wandering..... then how are you being true to your husband. Next time LOG off the computer and go sit with your husband and have a conversation with him. This is the thing I never understand with women, why is your marriage not important enough to save? If you aren't happy then get out of it or fix it.

    Answer by crystac at 11:43 AM on Aug. 30, 2009

  • its hard to fixs when he is not home he drives truck and when he is home and when he is he wants his friends more then me :(

    Answer by Anonymous at 11:55 AM on Aug. 30, 2009

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