I think you need to talk about it more with your husband. If he is not wanting one right now you really need to respect his wishes now, you never know he may change his mind later.
Guys stress in different ways than we do, and if you were to get pregnant now, and he is feeling like it would be a financial burden you would only be putting strain on you and your marriage. And there is no changing minds after you have a baby, but a baby is something you should both agree on bringing into the world!
at 3:07 PM on Aug. 30, 2009