I've been going through a rough spell in my marriage and am living at my mother's, well my husband works out of state and only comes home on the weekends. Today I came home with my daughter after having a great weekend with my husband (away from home, he isn't allowed here) sooooooo, my mom has had an attitude and been saying very smart remarkes when I tell her what he's done for me this weekend. Well she said something smart @ss about my husband and it pissed me off, so I told her to kiss my F*&%$#G @SS! I know it was a little harsh but she kept saying rude things and disrespecting me. I love my mom almost as much as I do my daughter, well mom's gonna be home soon and I know she's gonna wanna talk and I don't really wanna say I'm sorry first. Any suggestions?
Asked by Anonymous at 7:27 PM on Aug. 30, 2009 in Relationships
Answer by stickyfingers at 7:30 PM on Aug. 30, 2009
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Answer by stickyfingers at 8:00 PM on Aug. 30, 2009
Just let your mom know that you love her, but you also love your DH. There is nothing that she can do to change that fact. Love is something that can not be controlled no matter how much she wants to. Let her know that you are married to this man and you will be for the rest of your life. This is something that she is going to have to get used to. At Least he is doing things for you. He could be the man that sits back and lets you do for him. Instead, he is doing for you. She needs to realize that you are lucky. She probably never will, and she will probably always say bad things about your DH, but there is always hope.
Answer by krissyvelazquez at 9:40 PM on Aug. 30, 2009
Answer by Mousuke at 3:47 AM on Aug. 31, 2009