So, I have these friends that have been there for me and my family ...for the most part. I've known them for years and we have always been up front and honest. Not long ago, her and her dh split and have been working on their marriage since. I try to always be there for her when she needs an ear or shoulder.
Problem is now, my dh and I are having problems. Big ones. To the point of possible splitting. So I've been looking to her for support and am not getting a lot. She's been very self absorbed lately. To the point of neglecting her own relationships with dh, dds and other close friends. Should I just let her be? Tell her (once again) that she needs to step up and pull her head out? or Just cut her out? (the last one would be very difficult seeing that she is my dd's godmother). I'm tired of always making the effort to stay friends. Another problem is she is my only close friend. All my family live hundreds of miles away.
Asked by Anonymous at 8:00 PM on Aug. 31, 2009 in Relationships
Answer by Anonymous at 8:57 PM on Aug. 31, 2009
Answer by bridgeh2o at 11:58 PM on Aug. 31, 2009
Answer by Anonymous at 7:44 AM on Sep. 1, 2009