My son's dad hasn't bothered in almost a year now tonight he called and wanted to see him but my son knows my boyfriend as daddy and tht is all he knows anymore my son is going through enough already with going to riley every month because of vision problems my sons father is now saying oh i'm gonna call the cops because i'm keeping his son away from him i just don't get it i'm so frustrated is there anything i can do to get him to quit harrassing me
You'll get answers on both sides but I think the majority would say just the opposite of the above poster. Just because someone is a sperm donor DOES NOT give them the right to be in their child's life. You need to do what you feel is best. Your child will grow up one day and resent you for something anyways. As long as you feel you have your child's best interests at heart you don't need to worry about it. He hasn't been around for a year...why does he care now? Your child might resent you for keeping him away from his bio father or he might resent you from not protecting him against his bio father. Do what you feel is best.
Answer by legalmommy101 at 9:16 PM on Aug. 31, 2009
Answer by goaliemom93 at 9:04 PM on Aug. 31, 2009
I agree with goaliemom93.
Answer by louise2 at 9:09 PM on Aug. 31, 2009
Answer by softchick21 at 9:09 PM on Aug. 31, 2009
Answer by Anonymous at 9:24 PM on Aug. 31, 2009
""Sperm Doners" pay child support dont they? The law does NOT state that you have to stay away for one year to terminate your parental rights!!!
No, actually sperm donors don't have to pay child support. All states have their own laws regarding parental rights or the establishment of parental rights. Sorry, just because someone can reproduce does not automatically give them rights to the child. Op, if his name is on the birth certificate and you haven't established full legal and physical custody, do so asap.
Answer by legalmommy101 at 9:32 PM on Aug. 31, 2009
Answer by Anonymous at 10:02 PM on Aug. 31, 2009
Answer by Anonymous at 11:20 PM on Aug. 31, 2009