We have been separated for 5 months and he thinks that it's ok for his girlfriend to spend the night or vice versa and sleep together while our son is with him. He is 10 years old and I think he's going thru enough already getting used to the separation and seeing us both with other people. I'm glad he's not bringing home someone different every night. I told him if they were going to stay the night, one of them should sleep on the couch. He see's this as a way for me to try and dictate how he lives his life. And while it does hurt to see him with someone so soon, this is not about me. I just don't think this is right. The house is still in both our names and I've been having trouble getting refinanced in just my name. He is now threatening to take legal action if it's not out of his name by the end of Sept. all because I told him not to be in same bed while he has our son. Am I wrong to be upset?Please helpAnswer Question
Ask your son how he feels about it. If your son has a problem with it then cut off that kind of visitation unless he agrees not to allow new gfs to be around. His time spent with his son should be exactly that and not time with the gf.
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