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Do you hate or look down on single moms because you think that they all made a bad choice and that they are all whores because they had sex before marriage and got pregnant and you feel this way about them because they didnt do it the right way like you because you found your one and only, got married and had kids?

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Anonymous

Asked by Anonymous at 11:01 PM on Aug. 31, 2009 in Just for Fun

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  • Wouldn't we be fools to make such assumptions about single moms.
    I don't look any particular way at single moms except to think how tired they must be.
    jeanclaudia

    Answer by jeanclaudia at 11:03 PM on Aug. 31, 2009

  • Uhhh........ Wow?
    No, I do not hate or look down on single moms. Not all single moms are single because they never got married... they can be widows.. divorcees, etc.
    I had sex before marriage, so I guess that makes me a whore. Wooo! Jezebel.
    K_Sawyer

    Answer by K_Sawyer at 11:03 PM on Aug. 31, 2009

  • Talk about generalizing why single moms are single. I'm a single mom because my husband walked out on us. And I think you are a troll anyhow.
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 11:04 PM on Aug. 31, 2009

  • WOW
    I agree you are generalizing a bit.
    Mrs.Owen86

    Answer by Mrs.Owen86 at 11:05 PM on Aug. 31, 2009

  • And, btw. I had sex before marriage - had a baby, got married.. and he's the father of my firstborn and now my secondborn. He is my one and only.
    Not all people are lucky to find their one and only with the "first" baby daddy... (i'm SO sorry if this is offensive or came out the wrong way!!! I don't mean it like that) just because their relationship didn't end up working... I do not consider them whores.
    K_Sawyer

    Answer by K_Sawyer at 11:05 PM on Aug. 31, 2009

  • i agree troll
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 11:05 PM on Aug. 31, 2009

  • OP here- I am a single mom, a proud single mom but some of the things people put on here make me feel like they look at all single moms the same way because they did it the right way.

    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 11:06 PM on Aug. 31, 2009

  • Um, no. I don't think there is any "right" way to have kids. So what if they aren't married? So long as they take care of their kid(s). It's not my business anyway. I know a lot of single moms, and they are all great moms. The only thing I ever really think about single moms is, "Wow, she must be so strong! I don't know if I could handle it."
    Mrs.BAT

    Answer by Mrs.BAT at 11:06 PM on Aug. 31, 2009

  • Are you having issues with being a single mom right now? Your entire question just runs together and it's a little weird.
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 11:06 PM on Aug. 31, 2009

  • That a really presumptive statement/question. To answer your question, NO...my mom settled down, got married and ended up a single mom with THREE kids to support because my sperm donor refused to stop using drugs. Sounds like a whore, right? She by the way didn't date or marry anyone until I was 14 (she was divorced when I was 4) and married the same guy that she dated, they have been married almost 14 years now. What a whore....geesh!
    MamaRoberts

    Answer by MamaRoberts at 11:06 PM on Aug. 31, 2009

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