Would you casually ask this question to people in the office?
What were the results of your last pap smear? Would you ask this to stranger in line at the grocery store?
Have you ever had any surgical procedures? Would you bring up this topic to another mom sitting in the park?
No? Then don't ask another woman if she had a vaginal birth or a c-section! The question is just as inappropriate!
I feel like something has been stolen from me and I can't get it back. I can't go to the store and buy a new birthing experience. It's stuck with me forever and just when I think I'm over it, someone has to go and ask, "Did you have a vaginal birth or a c-section?" And then they want to know why. I've been forced into this conversation more times than I can count and it rips the emotional scar of the c-section wide open once again.
The real question: I need some good one-liners to shut people up who ask this obnoxious question.
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