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is it weird that i dont fantasize about being with other men?

ever since ive been with my man i don't look at other men and i dont fantasize about other men. is that normal?

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Asked by Anonymous at 10:48 PM on Sep. 1, 2009 in Relationships

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  • it is for me

    Answer by PURPULbutterfly at 10:49 PM on Sep. 1, 2009

  • not at all, actually that's how I know how good me and my man are relationship wise, when i'm crazy in love with him, I can't fantisize or even feel attracted to hunk that walk right by me, but when we've been distant, i'm all eyes, just thinking of the possibilities!

    Answer by SillyMeesa at 10:50 PM on Sep. 1, 2009

  • There's nothing wrong with that. I joke with my dh about how Keanu Reeves is cute, and he says that Drew Barrymore is, but I don't fantasize about him.

    I think it's normal either way.

    Answer by sailorwifenmom at 11:08 PM on Sep. 1, 2009

  • Oh, you will. LOL jk of course. What exactly is normal?
    More power to ya! :D

    Answer by MandyOs at 11:27 PM on Sep. 1, 2009

  • thats how i am and no one believes me lol i hate how my man still looks but i guess im jealous lol i think if ur happy w who ur w then why still look?

    Answer by aidensmama8 at 12:10 AM on Sep. 2, 2009

  • I do not 'look' or fantasize about other men. Don't get me wrong, I notice attractive people but I don't 'look' or think 'that person is hot' or anything else sexual toward them. People that do not have a pure heart or mind will not understand HOW or WHY that is possible but it is. Who cares if it is is the right way to be. More & more what is right is wrong in the worlds eyes.

    Answer by Anonymous at 6:48 AM on Sep. 2, 2009

  • I don't either! After almost 8 years! I've heard my girl friends say that some guy is SO hot but I never see it. Be glad that you don't want anyone else, that should make your relationship that much better!

    Answer by Katrina3016 at 10:17 AM on Sep. 2, 2009

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