This very thing happened to my daughter. Her bf told her to either get an abortion or move out because he didn't want a baby. She moved out and moved to another state with friends, but she still loved her bf very much and hoped for a reconciliation. During her pregnancy she sent him photos of the ultrasound, her growing belly, and messages over his cell phone and in email. He finally told her to leave him alone. When she came home and told us she was still in love we gently pointed out to her what real love is and he did not love her. When the baby was born and she sent him a picture he and his mother told her he wasn't the father. She finally snapped out of it and realized that she loved the 'idea' of being in love with him but knew he didn't love her or his baby in return. She now has no communication with him, has moved on with her life, and has filed for child support.
at 8:17 AM on Sep. 2, 2009