Join the Meeting Place for Moms!
Talk to other moms, share advice, and have fun!

(minimum 6 characters)

need some help getting out of this "funk"-sorry for all the bad spelling im exosted but cant sleep-(kinda really long)

ok so a few months ag oi got back with an ex who i was really in love with
and he loved me
then we got in a fight and he went over the safe line i think
so i got a prection (sp?) order
everyday since then i have felt like i took it to far
i cant get him out of mind
my heart sinks when ever he crosses my mind
i was doing good till today i started thinking of him hardcore idk why
now i feel really depressed
i have not showed it and tryed not to feel like i am
so i can take care of my DD
well my DD is a sleep now and i cant seem to get out of this funk
i know that i should be over him
but im not
so i just need someone to talk to me or give me advice
i need out of this funk
i know most are gonna say stop thinking of your self worrie about your DD
she is my main consern (sp?) but if i stay in this funk
im worried i will get to the point to where i will be to depressed to take care o

Answer Question

Asked by 19bubbles91 at 1:57 AM on Sep. 2, 2009 in Just for Fun

Level 5 (68 Credits)
Answers (7)
  • of her i just need help please????

    Answer by 19bubbles91 at 1:59 AM on Sep. 2, 2009

  • I am not the best at this type of think but when I am in a funk it helps when I take some me time and do thinge I didnt do with the ex. Or find somethign newif its a new guy or hobbie. Take some u time and go to your happy place. Sounds corny but sometimes a hot relaxing bath and good book do wonders washing the worries away!

    Answer by xxstacixx720xx at 2:06 AM on Sep. 2, 2009

  • Remind yourself why you got the PO and ask yourself if that is something you want to expose both your dd and yourself to deserve better, keep looking and you'll find it. (((HUGS)))

    Answer by Anonymous at 2:07 AM on Sep. 2, 2009

  • i've been thinking of you lately honey!!! i hope all goes well!

    Answer by pookipoo at 2:08 AM on Sep. 2, 2009

  • ok ill go anon but wth did you do? i dont understnd?:( do you mean you got a restrainning order i dont undertand what your saying

    Answer by Anonymous at 2:13 AM on Sep. 2, 2009

  • You say you took it too far getting the order of protection but isn't he the one who took it toofar. Stop beating yourself up and look forward to meeting a NEW guy and not an ex who crosses the line! GL

    Answer by ItsMeGigi69 at 2:32 AM on Sep. 2, 2009

  • How would you feel if your child was getting beaten up. Then know that you have thought about that stop thinking about this SCUM BAG he is a loser and if you think for a minute that he isn't gonna hit you or disrespect you or even hit your child then your wrong, very, very wrong. So get of the pity potty and pick yourself up and cont on with your life with you and your child. He is a loser and you know that deep inside you right now your just lonly and trust me it will happen again.

    Answer by Anonymous at 2:58 AM on Sep. 2, 2009

Join CafeMom now to contribute your answer and become part of our community. It's free and takes just a minute.

Next question in Just for Fun
Overpopulation?!? Why are you here?

Next question overall (Pregnancy)