Do you get invited or just invite yourself to your step kids school orientation parent conferences shoppong etc when you husband goes if the ex will be there? if you r the ex how does it make you feel when the new wife goes to everything?
Asked by Anonymous at 1:24 PM on Sep. 3, 2009 in Relationships
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Answer by feesharose at 1:40 PM on Sep. 3, 2009
I go if I am invited by my husband and his ex which is usually every time now. I am not my step kids mom so I don't overstep those boundaries. Could be why I am invited now and her and I get along so well. When we first were married I was excluded from many things and I was OK with that. I knew the ex needed to get to know me and I let her know from day one I would respect her as the kids mom and to let me know where I can help her and my husband with the kids. She thanked me and after a few months we had lunch and discussed my role as a step mom. Her and my husband decided what that role I would play in their kids life. I am very involved and love the kids. We put the kids best interests first and when you do that you will get along with the ex or step mom. I feel sad for kids that don't have that.
Answer by Anonymous at 1:44 PM on Sep. 3, 2009
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