My 15 ds has decided because he did not like our punishment that he is moving back to his dads. There is no structure there and he has done this before. Do I put my foot down and say no way and make the x take me to court to get custody? I know DS will be pissed but I think I should go with my gut. Thoughts?Answer Question
Asked by Anonymous at 1:57 PM on Sep. 3, 2009 in Teens (13-17)
Answer by Anonymous at 1:59 PM on Sep. 3, 2009
Answer by Anonymous at 2:02 PM on Sep. 3, 2009
Answer by boredmom44 at 2:06 PM on Sep. 3, 2009
Listen to your gut, if he ends up with your ex...your ex can still try to take you to court for custody and he will actually have physical custody of him if he's living with dad. I would not allow this try to work things out with your son and if he gets mad, well....oh well. If dad still try's to take you to court at least you have the physical custody of your son.
Answer by Anonymous at 2:10 PM on Sep. 3, 2009
Answer by Anonymous at 2:14 PM on Sep. 3, 2009
Do not allow him to go live with dad. We asked my husbands ex- mother in law and her boyfriend to help us with my husbands son, behavioral problems and the bio mom convinced them to take us to court for child support and custody. They got child support and temp. physical custody of him and now we are looking into getting a lawyer to get custody back. It's a huge mess!
I would keep your son home and try to deal with him and work it out with him.
Answer by Anonymous at 2:15 PM on Sep. 3, 2009
Answer by Jesusfanatic at 6:49 PM on Sep. 3, 2009
I can't really give you any sound advice,without knowing all the facts,just like another lady son wanted to go with his father because his step-father was verbally abusing him,and calling him jerks. Most of the times there's an underlining reason for a child to start acting out.
Answer by Anonymous at 7:31 PM on Sep. 3, 2009
Answer by lighthousemom3 at 9:04 PM on Sep. 3, 2009
Answer by lighthousemom3 at 9:09 PM on Sep. 3, 2009