After 16+yrs...I know deep in my heart my relationship w/ my so is finally over.
We both carry on like everything is normal. Yet, nothing is normal.
Sex sucks, it's no longer pleasurable nor exciting. There is NO spark between us. We no longer communicate like we used to & we fight over the stupidist shit now.
My so wants nothing to do w/ our kids anymore either, our kids may be grown ( 19 & 20 ) but they still look up to my so as a father figuer, and yet, my so is pulling away, keeping to himself on purpose .
I'm tired of pretending everything is " normal " in our relationship. I'm tired of crying becouse he uses words to hurt me, I'm tired of trying to kiss his ass 24/7 yet get kicked down every chance I get. I'm just plain tired of everything. I'm not happy, my kids are miserable & confused. My whole world revolved around him & the kids. Now, I feel like I'm alone floating in this wild untamed breeze.
What would you do?
Asked by Anonymous at 9:36 PM on Sep. 3, 2009 in Relationships
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