i ahve been with him for 8 years we have one kids togther i have 3 other that dont belong to him. he asked me to marry him. well i told him yes. when it comes down to doing it he always finds a reason why we cant. i am sick of just being the girlfriend. i wont to be a family. i wont to show my girls to be married to someone not just live with them. i guess i wont my happy ever after. i am in my 30's and wont more than this out of life. should i just move on? i have told him how i feel.Answer Question
Asked by Anonymous at 10:49 PM on Sep. 3, 2009 in Relationships
Answer by Anonymous at 10:55 PM on Sep. 3, 2009
Answer by Anonymous at 10:58 PM on Sep. 3, 2009
I think that your very valid in wanting your live in boyfriend to commit and be your husband. You want to set a good example for your daughters and teach them to get married and have children and not necessarily in that order but to do things the right way. Sometimes the one we are with is not the one we are meant to be with so...do some soul searching and pray on it and go with what your heart tells you if you need to end the relationship fine....remember the ending is a new beginning. Good luck.
Answer by Anonymous at 11:01 PM on Sep. 3, 2009
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Answer by cfdm3s_mommy at 1:05 AM on Sep. 4, 2009
i don't see how asking a bunch of strangers is the right way to go here, we have no idea of your life. why in the world would anyone listen to strangers who think they know it all on a matter such as this? only you know this do what you have to do but don't rely on ppl you don't know to make decisions for you.
Answer by Anonymous at 8:19 AM on Sep. 4, 2009
Answer by kawona at 6:39 PM on Sep. 4, 2009