My best friend has been in a relationship with the same guy for 4 years now. It hasn't been good for about 2 years. They were engaged but when it became obvious that they weren't ever going to get married she stopped wearing the ring, but continues to live w/him. She keeps saying she cant find a place, shes broke, she has a dog and its difficult to find a place to rent with a big dog, etc. I've listened intentively as she has rambled on about the relationship & what's wrong with it & I've done everything I can think of to help her find a place. I don't have money to give her, or a spare room for her to stay in, so my help is limited. About a month ago she started having a affair with her live in bf's best friend. Now she is inviting me to get togethers where both guys will be attending & I just don't feel like I can go without saying something, does this make me a bad friend to not want to be around? I need advice...
Asked by Anonymous at 9:03 AM on Sep. 4, 2009 in Relationships
Answer by kimigogo at 5:03 PM on Sep. 4, 2009
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Answer by admckenzie at 9:25 AM on Sep. 4, 2009
Distance yourself. Her actions are her responsibility. It is not necessary for you to worry about this. If you aren't comfortable with her behaviors then step back. You don't need to "step into" her mess or fix it at all. I highly recommend that you don't.
Answer by Teachermom01 at 9:26 AM on Sep. 4, 2009
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