I told my children that they should not and cannot let anyone but mommy/doctor touch them anywhere their bathing suit covers. That made a very simple visual for them. Granted you have others in your life I am sure you are confident won't molest your kids ie grandma etc. It is up to you and what members in your family you trust. I would not heisitate to let my mom give my kids a bath, check for a boo boo in a private area. But for the most part if your bathing suit covers it...NO TOUCHY!
at 2:11 PM on Sep. 4, 2009