Thought I would get more responses here. I am the oldest of 3. I have a younger sister and a younger brother. I am 43, she is 41 and he is 37. On July 5th our father/divorced and remarried..had some sort of cardiac event while in his pool and drown. (Never swim alone people) anyway, he died so abruptly. He was 67 and not even retired. Since then, my brother whom my sis and I are very close to has become like a robot. Cold, unemotional, very very angry. All of these a part of the process I suppose. But we are worried for him. He is married with two young girls, I feel for his family. It is like I don't know who he is anymore. He does not like to show emotion. Something has to give. We have tried to give him time, it's only been 2 mo's but he seems to be getting darker and darker. He has a short fuse, how do I approach him? What do I say? He needs help whether he knows it or not.
Answer by NicholeAT at 2:46 PM on Sep. 4, 2009
Answer by BridgetC140 at 2:44 PM on Sep. 4, 2009
Answer by mama4Christ361 at 3:08 PM on Sep. 4, 2009