I'm a single mother of a 3 year old. The father is not a significant part of the picture. I recently found out I am expecting again...8 weeks along. I told the father (not the same one) and he said he can't do this. I don't know what to do. He doesn't want it, but I do. I don't want to force him into anything but I don't think I could live with having an abortion. If I decide to have it, I will have 2 kids with 2 fathers and I'm not with either one. If I have this baby I also plan to get my tubes tied. I'm so confused.Answer Question
Asked by Anonymous at 9:29 PM on Sep. 4, 2009 in Pregnancy
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Maybe I'm not the best person to answer this question because I'm 22 weeks and full of preggy hormones but. . . I think you answered this question for yourself. . . Your response is that you want this baby. . . The real question is what is your support network like. . . the dad obviously will not support you emotionally but what about family and friends. . . gather them close and start decorating the baby's room.
As for adoption. . . I am a b-mom and very pro adoption. . . however if your first thought isn't adoption (like mine was) then you may find yourself feeling guilty or bitter if you do adopt out especially if you have your tubes tied. . . I'm not against it but it has to be your choice. . . I wish you luck and offer a shoulder if you need someone to talk to.
Answer by chrissmom734 at 11:33 PM on Sep. 4, 2009