ever since i had my second child (the first is not my husband's) i'v been havn problems with my sex life with my DH. numbr one im breastfeedn, numbr two im on depo, numbr three i hav two kids to deal with during the day. i've tried to xplain whats going on with me nd DH is tryn so hard to undrstand but the few times i am able to push myself to get thngs going doesn't satisfy him enuf bcuz he feels lik im not into it. i can feel my marriage spiraling down nd i don want to hav trouble btween me nd my husband. iv contemplatd weaning, but evn thn ill hav to wait 2 years to let the depo to get out of my system to evn see a differenc. i dont kno wat to do. plz plz plz help me. i cant tak the pain nemore!Answer Question
Asked by Anonymous at 2:24 PM on Sep. 7, 2009 in Relationships
Answer by firewife1 at 2:36 PM on Sep. 7, 2009
Answer by lfl at 2:39 PM on Sep. 7, 2009
girl ween that baby!!!
If you have to pump, then go to Spencer's and get one of those pills that enhance women's sex drive and pleasure. Initiate the sex! Go down, jump on top, something! Anything! Spend time with him doing things he likes...fishing, bowling, etc. Praise him. Compliment him. Make sure you take at least one night out of the week to make him feel special. Just the two of you. But no matter what you do remember that sex isn't the glue to a relationship (key, but not glue). Sometimes all it takes is a little extra attention.
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