do you think that there is ever a situation that it is ok to sever the bond between a father and his son? lets just say that this person was more like a sperm donor, who has shown absolutely no interest in his offspring from his birth thru the past 7 years. and now all of the sudden he wants something to do with him. i would also like to say that he is a horrible person, who was abusive to me for our entire 3 yr relationship, does drugs, and many other bad things. There is so much to this story... I was 15 when i had him(my son) and i didn't put this man's name on the birth certificate... i wanted away from him, and i didnt want him to be able to tie me to him with our son,, my son hasn't seen him since he was 8mos old he is now 7 and he has no clue that he is his "bio" father...my husband has raised him with me since he was 1yr old.....am i doing the wrong thing ,,,keeping him away from a monster...Answer Question
Asked by Anonymous at 4:26 PM on Sep. 7, 2009 in General Parenting
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Answer by tropicalmama at 6:21 PM on Sep. 7, 2009
I say you were hurt and abused, I also know it wasn't around for 7 years, you are not GOD, only GOD can say judge him, if, he wants to be in his child life, go to the courts,and let them decide, also,was he paying child support, make sure the courts know you need child support. Did your DH adopt your son,I would also talk to your child doctor,to ask him is your son capable of handling this information.
Answer by Anonymous at 7:04 PM on Sep. 7, 2009
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