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How many of you ladies have had ...

a 3sum with your current DH and another woman?
How did it effect your marriage?
Is it something you would do again?
What sort of things did you discuss and/or what kind of "rules" did you lay out BEFORE hand?


Asked by Anonymous at 8:05 PM on Sep. 7, 2009 in Relationships

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Answers (5)
  • never with my current man but in a past relationship I have done it. We were really into sexual revolution type stuff. we were both totally secure in the relationship and the extra was just some fun. as long as the "extra" knows that shes just there to be a live sex toy lol

    Answer by Anonymous at 8:12 PM on Sep. 7, 2009

  • 3somes are too unbalanced. Try a 4some to keep things in perspective. I've never heard of a 3 some (with 2 females) turning out well. Some with 2 guys and 1 female can work but why risk it?

    Answer by admckenzie at 8:21 PM on Sep. 7, 2009

  • I'm stingy I don't share my man, he respects me more than that too! You should do things like that if you're single, unless you're dying to have a troubled relationship.

    Answer by Anonymous at 8:33 PM on Sep. 7, 2009

  • I would never do that and neither would my boyfriend.

    Answer by officerjoeys at 8:45 PM on Sep. 7, 2009

  • No. I am married because I only want to be with him. If I wanted sex with others I would have remained single. Only trash do stuff like that.

    Answer by Anonymous at 8:55 PM on Sep. 7, 2009