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I am a single mom with 2 kids by 2 dads (8 and 1)

I am not with either father currently. What is your judgment?

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Anonymous

Asked by Anonymous at 1:31 PM on Sep. 8, 2009 in Just for Fun

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  • i am thinking... why did they run from you? haha
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 1:32 PM on Sep. 8, 2009

  • shit happens? lol
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 1:32 PM on Sep. 8, 2009

  • My SIL has 5 kids with 5 days and has restraining orders on all of them, so trust me, it could be a lot worse.
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 1:32 PM on Sep. 8, 2009

  • Not too much judgement except maybe after the first one, more thought would have been put into the 2nd one but no one is perfect..
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 1:33 PM on Sep. 8, 2009

  • Judgement? Well dear, I don't have one. Crap happens. Relationships don't work out. I wouldn't worry so much about what other people think of you if I were you.
    Katrina3016

    Answer by Katrina3016 at 1:33 PM on Sep. 8, 2009

  • with 5 days? 5 dads? .......i get judged bc im 21 i have a 2 yr old and an 9 month old and everyone seems to think im a slut or something and they tell me i have too many kids.. mine are will the same dad.. but hell i dont care as long as the kids are healthy.. no one has the right to judge you. they dont know how the kids were brought into this world :)
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 1:34 PM on Sep. 8, 2009

  • I think as long as you are a good mom, who cares? ? Hopefully dads are still involved, (as long as they aren't "bad") and hopefully your babies are happy and healthy. Its life, it will be ok.
    Tiera12

    Answer by Tiera12 at 1:38 PM on Sep. 8, 2009

  • I think you need to put more effort and time into relationships before you start having sex/babies.
    missanc

    Answer by missanc at 1:39 PM on Sep. 8, 2009

  • Anon :32 what makes you think they ran from me?

    Missanc does it make you think differently if I was with both men for four years?
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 1:42 PM on Sep. 8, 2009

  • No, I think both relationships ended up not working out for some reason that should have been addressed before you had kids. But what I think doesn't really matter, the question should be, how do you plan to keep from having 3 kids with 3 different dads, none of whom you're with?
    missanc

    Answer by missanc at 1:51 PM on Sep. 8, 2009

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