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How much do you cater to your husband?

basically how much do you do, go out of your way to do, feel obligated to do...etc.

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Asked by Anonymous at 6:17 PM on Sep. 8, 2009 in Just for Fun

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  • I do everything for him (he is just my boyfriend but we live together).
    If I listed everything I did for him I would run out of room. I pretty much treat him like royalty.

    LoL okay now I feel like i'm getting the bad end of this deal, where the hell is my special treatment haha jk.

    Answer by colesmommy2009 at 6:19 PM on Sep. 8, 2009

  • Oh wow, I do too much.. like, everything. Cook, clean, do his laundry, totally do everything for baby alone...

    But I love him and don't mind. Mostly I do it because I am freaking control freak and have to make sure everything is done my way. :-)

    Answer by Anonymous at 6:21 PM on Sep. 8, 2009

  • Not at all, we are equals. It doesn't mean though that if I'm going to the kitchen to get something I won't ask him if he needs anything. I watched my grandma and my mom cater to their husbands all my life, not for me.....

    Answer by emnasmom at 6:23 PM on Sep. 8, 2009

  • We do things for each other, I don't think we look at it as going out of our way...these day's I think men do alot more for women than the old school days where women catered to their men. I love doing sweet things for my husband, but honestly I have to say, he does more.

    Answer by geminisummerz at 6:23 PM on Sep. 8, 2009

  • I cater to my hub quite a bit, lol. I don't feel badly about it though. I love him and I like making sure that he's comfortable while at home, especially because he works 12 hours a day at a very hard job to provide for all of us. He doesn't ask for me to do anything for him and I think thats what makes it special. He doesn't EXPECT it, he appreciates it. And he doesn't complain when I send him to the store several times a week for things I've forgotten, lol.

    Answer by Katrina3016 at 6:26 PM on Sep. 8, 2009

  • We cater to eachother. Its all about teamwork!

    Answer by CrazedMomof2 at 6:26 PM on Sep. 8, 2009

  • More than i probably should as it is enabling him.. but until we start counseling again, i don't see much changing. but like one other person wrote, if i put everything down i did for him, i would run out of room. but he does help me in the small ways that he can!

    Answer by ArmyWifeMomof3 at 6:33 PM on Sep. 8, 2009

  • A lot actually. But he caters to me too, so I think we're even.

    Answer by Cavalrybaby02 at 6:37 PM on Sep. 8, 2009

  • I am his wife and it is my job to take care of him and my family.

    Answer by Kristin216 at 6:46 PM on Sep. 8, 2009

  • I try to do everything for him I even cut his hair, its the least I can do since I don't work and he works almost 12hrs a day and takes good care of me and our 2 kids.

    Answer by KittyAuJus at 6:47 PM on Sep. 8, 2009

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