I have been married for exactly two years. On my anniversery the other day my husband told me he can't stand to be around me. He said i'm mean to his son (yes i make him mind but i'm not mean)(his son (6) and me have troubles because he doesn't like me.) I"m with the son allllll the time so yes sometimes i get upset with him who wouldn't. My husband goes to his friends house everyday after work and dsoesn't come back till i'm in bed. he said he doesn't want me to move out but I don't think I can survive much longer being hated and unloved. (cause his son sure doens't love me (his son is with us 24-7) I'm 27 weeks pregnant and i don't think it's to good for me to be stressed out and crying all the time about this. help and any words of advice? I'm tried of crying. I'm still very much in love with this man and can't even think about living with him.Answer Question
Asked by Anonymous at 8:32 PM on Sep. 8, 2009 in Relationships
have you sat down and talked without any distractions? there has to be something else going on that he isn't saying. if it was only how you treated his son, why didn't he mention it earlier?
Answer by Anonymous at 8:36 PM on Sep. 8, 2009
In all honesty I wouldn't tolerate that, and I'm really not trying to be mean but are you sure he is going to his friends house, and if he is are you sure he isn't carrying on a relationship with someone else? I would talk to him, but it sounds like he has made up his mind. Do what's right for you, I for one wouldn't be his child-sitter or doormat any longer.Good Luck~
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