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Does your husband care what your weight is?

My husband is great, I am plus size and havent lost all of my weight from my last preganancy 16months ago and he still shows how beautiful he thinks I am. Just wondering if husbands out there look down on their wife if she has not lost all her baby weight.

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Asked by momat38 at 4:45 PM on Jun. 23, 2008 in Relationships

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  • Hold on to him...He is one in a million, rare find Treasure. And If ya decide to get rid of him??? ...send him my way!! LOL

    Answer by MommasCooCoo at 4:47 PM on Jun. 23, 2008

  • Well my fiance loves how i look. But even though he looks at me that way i dont feel that way. I wonder why females do that?

    Answer by brit041 at 4:48 PM on Jun. 23, 2008

  • I agree with you brit041. My husband still looks at me the way he did when we were newly married and I was skinny...I just don't look at me that way! I have no idea why we do this.

    Answer by frankiesmom125 at 4:58 PM on Jun. 23, 2008

  • My husband doesn't care how I look or how much weight I've gained! Last time we were intimate, he was urging me to get completely naked (I am 8 mo. pregnant!), but I, personally didn't feel comfortable doing that!....He doesn't care how I look when I'm not preg. either!

    Answer by tulip421 at 5:19 PM on Jun. 23, 2008

  • my husband doesnt care what i look like, ivve been skinny, pregnant, pregnantand swollen, and now a little flabby after the babvy came.... but he seems to like me even more now... its great!!!!!

    Answer by edwinsmom2008 at 6:53 PM on Jun. 23, 2008

  • My hubby is always telling me how beautiful he thinks I am and even after being together 11 years, he still wants ALL the FREAKING LIGHTS ON when we're naked! Guess that pretty much says it all!
    I've gained so much weight over the past 11 years and it's ALL HIS FAULT! He loves cooking for me and feeding me even when I know I shouldn't eat any more!
    And the reason most men say we're beautiful even when we feel fat is because they have done the same thing! My hubby has also gained weight! So fair play is fair play!

    Answer by jon6pat at 7:19 PM on Jun. 23, 2008

  • Yes and no. He likes me the way I am. If i was thinner then I could wear sexier clothes, if I was larger then I'd have a bigger butt.

    I am a normal size, and as long as I am healthy & his I don't think he cares.

    Answer by GATygerLily at 10:35 PM on Jun. 23, 2008

  • yes my man still looks at me the same even though when we met I was about 25 pounds lighter and my boobs still looked upward. But 2 children and 5 years later he still wants to see me naked during well ya know and whistles and stuff at me spontaniosly thru the day, so yeah hes greAt and wonderful.

    Answer by twototsmom at 10:47 PM on Jun. 23, 2008

  • My husband says he is okay with my body,but always makes rude cracks at me. I just the other day had to tell him that he is not allowed to talk about my wieght at all. He always points out how skinny i was, etc. He just recently said look at this picture and asked me, " doesn't that make you mad?"
    Heck yeah, but I just had a baby 8 months ago and I gained 60 lbs with my pregnancy.
    That is alright I am going to lose all this wieght and then some!!!

    Answer by SandraBeth at 10:51 PM on Jun. 23, 2008

  • My faince says he loves the way I look, I went from a 120lbs to 165 after getting preg and having our son. He says he love show I look stretch marks and all because they were made by our son...anyways there not stretch marks they are battle scares :)

    Answer by notime4me621 at 4:42 PM on Jun. 24, 2008

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