My grandfather had a stroke and the doctors have pretty much said that he doesn't have very long to live.He has sexually abused several family members including my sister when she was a teen.After my grandmother died he went to her friends house and tried to grope her,but she slapped him and told him to get the hell out.Who knows how many other women he has done this to.I have'nt had anything to do with him since my grandma died.He is repulsive to me.I don't think that everyone in the family knows about his behavior and the women that he abused aren't anxious to talk about it.Which i don't blame them.My father lives next to him and has been taking care of him since my grandma died 5 yrs ago.I don't know if i should go to his funeral just to be there for my dad.What would you do?Answer Question
Asked by Anonymous at 11:06 AM on Sep. 9, 2009 in Relationships
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Answer by Anonymous at 11:10 AM on Sep. 9, 2009
Don't do anything that makes you feel uncomfortable. Does your dad know any of this? If not, it's up to you if you want to tell him or not. You can always just say that you have your reasons for not going & your dad should respect that. If y'all were not that close, then i don't see the big deal. It night hurt your dad's feelings, it might not. Why don't you call him & ask him if it will hurt his feelings if you don't go?
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