SO WE HAD PLANNED OUR LIVES TOGETHER. I HAD BOUGHT THINGS FOR OUR HOUSE & GOT ALL EXCITED.... EVEN BOUGHT A DRESS. HE WAS IN THE ARMY, GOING THROUGH TECH SCHOOL.(GOODFELLOW, TEXAS) HE WAS GONNA GRADUATE FROM TECH SCHOOL IN JANUARY....THATS WHEN EVERYTHING WAS GONNA BE DELT WITH. WE WERE GONNA GET MARRIED.
WELL HE WAS ON HIS WAY TO TEL HIS MOTHER ABOUT ME & HIM, ON SEPTEMBER 4TH, 2009. HE HAD GOTTEN INTO A CAR ACCIDENT & DIED INSTANTLY. :(
I FEEL AS IF I COULDA BEEN ABLE TO PREVENT THIS. LIKE IF I WOULDA CALLED HIM THAT DAY OR SOMETHING. JUST ANYTHING.
&& I THOUGHT IT WAS HARD BEING AWAY FROM HIM FOR 6 MONTHS....LITTLE DID I KNOW IT'D BE FOREVER. :(
LIFE IS SO SHORT && NOW I RELAIZE THAT. HONESLTY I FEEL LIKE SHIT, HAVEN'T EATEN IN DAYS & JUST PLAIN TIRED.
I'D DO JUST ABOUT ANYTHING TO GET HIS LIFE BACK. && I KNOW I CAN'T BUT THIS JUST REALLY REALLY SUCKS.
Answer by Lovebeingmomto1 at 8:04 PM on Sep. 9, 2009
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Answer by jilligan362 at 8:15 PM on Sep. 9, 2009
There was nothing you could do to keep it from happening. Just know he died loving you and thinking of you. Yes it hurts and will for a long time to come but he wouldn't want you sad forever. He'd want you to grieve then remember and honor him by living a happy life. That is what he wanted for you when he was alive and that's what he wants for you now. He'll be watching over you. Condolences on your loss
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