How do you get through it, the feelings, and shame for having the feelings and how do can I stop feeling like this.Answer Question
Asked by Anonymous at 10:20 AM on Sep. 10, 2009 in Health
Answer by Anonymous at 10:25 AM on Sep. 10, 2009
Answer by kimigogo at 10:30 AM on Sep. 10, 2009
I have ,I did ! than I realize ,that no problem is big enough/ worthy of me doing something so stupid SELFISH , that's all there is to it selfishness & self pity, my life is way more worthy than that , my kids ,who will take care of them the way I do? & my husband, some moron gonna come take my place -perhaps mistreat them, my family / friends, we might not get along at times ,but heck ,I can't imagine causing them that kind of pain you are not the only one ,we all have PROBLEMS & life sucks in a lot of ways for some, more than other, but I know & believe that is all for a good reason ,the adversities in life is what makes us stronger, the trials is what shapes our character, stop for a moment & think the things you fought for & came through victorious, all the things that have brought joy to your life.do they deserve to be with out you,? I pray every moment that's how I overcame self pity. life is a gift & a blessing
Answer by annyPG at 10:48 AM on Sep. 10, 2009
There is no shame in wanting to escape problems. Yes I have thoughts about it but I just ride the wave of those depressive thoughts. I know depression is cyclical so if I hang on the bad part will be over and I can think more clearly when the cycle swings up again. Once the cycle is in the up position I can think of ways to deal with the problems. Take each problem separately. Take care of the ones you can take care of immediately and put the others aside to solve later. Take baby steps. Don't attempt to solve too many problems at one time.
Answer by admckenzie at 10:57 AM on Sep. 10, 2009
cont,, take one day at a time and yes count your blessings, this has thought me to appreciate the good and the bad ,there are so many people in this world in wayyyyyy more desperate situation yet, they go on!! bcz no matter what they have HOPE & must never give up this hope ,tomorrow will be better, and if not, than the next day will, and if not the next one! hope is perhaps all we might have at the moment and believe me there is no greater blessing than having hope!!
Answer by annyPG at 10:59 AM on Sep. 10, 2009
Answer by Anonymous at 11:12 AM on Sep. 10, 2009
Answer by Anonymous at 11:43 AM on Sep. 10, 2009