it has been 4 yrs since he has seen my kids the are 12 and 13. and now that he has visits back all he and his wife does is turn my daughter against me. they have other people call here and tell her her father is over there and see if she can sleep over but dont tell me hes there. wtf? have my daughter lie to me. and then his wife constintly calling here making trouble. she is always telling my daughter how she is going to buy her this and that and everything she wants. having a relationship with my daughter is one thing but turning her against me is another. they bribe her for everything. and then she thinks i will do it. i try to do the right thing but all they do is turn her against me. they dont try with my son cuz it dont work on him. she is disturbed in school. i got a call yesterday. i know this was going to happen again. he can never do whats right.Answer Question
Asked by Anonymous at 10:21 AM on Sep. 10, 2009 in Tweens (9-12)
Why don't ex-wives do the right thing? Why do they keep their children away from their father, even though he pays child support, picked them up when he is supposed to, even on mothers day?
Answer by Anonymous at 10:27 AM on Sep. 10, 2009
Do not change the way you are raising your children. IMO If the step mom calls do not let her talk to your DD. It is not her place to be doing that. I would not let her pick the kids up either. Only your EX should be dealing with the kids. What happens over at his(Your EX) house, you can not do anything about that. Just do not let what they (your EX and his wife) are doing change the way you are with your kids.
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