my husband tex his mom this exact tex: Would you like to spend some time w your grandkids 2 night? Me and my wife can go out 2 dinner while you spend time with them.
She tex back No I am wat Tooo tired! DON"T be trying to guilt me into watching them its pissing me off!
The last time she had them at her house was about 2months ago and we are the ones that have to ask if they can come over- we live 20 min away. She says she fills like a babysitter and says she seems them all the time. were lucky to see her once a month and when we do ask she responds "i guess so" or "i suppose but hurry".
Were at the point of not asking anymore, but were not sure why she went off like that. When she says no we just say ok. And no she doesn't come over when we invite her to our house either unless its a special occasion. we are diaappointed that she acts this way, and my husband is hurt by it, but his mom sees nothn wrong w it.
Asked by Anonymous at 12:44 PM on Sep. 10, 2009 in Relationships
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I don't talk to my side of the family very much, huge falling out..so they don't see our baby at all they have sent a couple care packages by mail and we live in the same state and I sent them "thank you" cards and pics. My husbands side has never once came to see our baby since birth and it's been 10-months and have not asked. I do get my feelings hurt for my baby, but I am use to being treated bad by my own family so his family doing this doesn't surprise me. I do wish it could be different but you can't force grandparents or family to love and care for our children. I know it sucks, but be strong and don't ask her to baby sit anymore.
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