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Would you consider this cheating?

If you dated a guy and he talked to his ex girlfriend on the computer almost everyday and it was mostly about sex or what they use to do during sex, would you consider that cheating on you?

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Asked by Anonymous at 10:38 PM on Sep. 10, 2009 in Relationships

Answers (13)
  • Nope. He's not your boyfriend so there's no commitment there. If he did that he probably doesn't want you at all and you should move on.

    Answer by SaraP1989 at 10:40 PM on Sep. 10, 2009

  • i wouldn't consider it cheating, but i would not be ok with it either.

    Answer by vabchmommy at 10:41 PM on Sep. 10, 2009

  • i wouldnt say it was cheating, but it could lead to it, i guess.

    Answer by Jessica1991 at 10:43 PM on Sep. 10, 2009

  • Why would he be doing something inappropriate like that? Why would you do something like that if you were in a relationship? And would he be okay with you talking sex with another guy? You do the math...

    Answer by Steff107 at 10:48 PM on Sep. 10, 2009

  • i consider engaging in any sexual activity, including talking about sex with another female cheating

    Answer by Anonymous at 10:50 PM on Sep. 10, 2009

  • I wouldnt say it was cheating but I would deffinatly break up if my SO was doing thaty. Its so disresspectful and disgusting.

    But if your not commiteed he really hhas no commitment to you so he can do as he pleases

    Answer by Dom123123 at 10:51 PM on Sep. 10, 2009

  • no bc he's a single man talking to another woman. That's not cheating, that's being a single man.

    Answer by Anonymous at 11:07 PM on Sep. 10, 2009

  • yes. that is cheating to me.

    Answer by PURPULbutterfly at 11:18 PM on Sep. 10, 2009

  • If you two are serious then why is he talkin to another girl about haing sex with her? He is a cheater (whether or not he did yet)

    Answer by JerzakJ at 11:47 PM on Sep. 10, 2009

  • He is being a perv.

    Answer by Anonymous at 11:53 PM on Sep. 10, 2009

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