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This may sound bad, but my heart is breaking for a mom....will you hold your husband a little tighter tonight?

There is a mom on here that just lost her husband......in an accident. It is SOO sad! We may not know her, personally, but we do know her here. This makes me feel soooo bad for yelling at dh earlier. I think when he gets home tonight (God willing) I will hold him extra tight. How about you? I mean NO offense, I am deeply botherd. I am speechless actually.

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Anonymous

Asked by Anonymous at 6:04 PM on Sep. 11, 2009 in Relationships

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  • My DH just got home, gonna go snuggle him right now.
    auroura

    Answer by auroura at 6:05 PM on Sep. 11, 2009

  • dont know how it sounds bad. i think it sounds sympathetic. i feel bad too. i couldnt imagine thinking that this morning was the last time i'd see my husband. has me all teary........my heart and prayers go out to her.....
    AmandaN1

    Answer by AmandaN1 at 6:06 PM on Sep. 11, 2009

  • OP- I dont mean that it sounds bad, just a little insensitive maybe? IDK, I'm so speechless.
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 6:07 PM on Sep. 11, 2009

  • omg im going to snuggle my dh as soon as he gets home
    karebear092579

    Answer by karebear092579 at 6:09 PM on Sep. 11, 2009

  • Wow. It really shows us to appreciate what we have. My heart is with her.
    Katrina3016

    Answer by Katrina3016 at 6:14 PM on Sep. 11, 2009

  • My thoughts go out to her and her family. I couldnt imagine with i would do if i lost mine. I will definately be holding him tight tonight.
    masonsmommy921

    Answer by masonsmommy921 at 6:24 PM on Sep. 11, 2009

  • My honey is sleeping right now he has to work tonight but when he gets up later I'm gonna hug him tighter than I normally do. I got goosebumps when I read her bulletin.
    kimosgirl08

    Answer by kimosgirl08 at 6:29 PM on Sep. 11, 2009

  • This is very sad, I don't know where to find her bulletin, but hearing this is very... idk! I can't imagine loosing my DH! My heart goes out to her for sure!!! My DH is deployed, has been for 15 mos now and comes home in just under 3 wks... over the last 2 years I've always wondered what I would do if I lost him and when he deployed I thought I knew exactly. I still can't imagine what life would be like without him... I feel sooo deeply for her! If feelings could reach the people we want them too, I'm sure she'd be feeling a lot of heartfelt "I'm sooo sorry to hear of your loss!!!!". Not an easy thing to deal with...
    When DH gets home, I have already decided to squeeze him as tight as I can... I really can't imagine loosing him! WOW... I couldn't imagine!!!
    07lilmama1108

    Answer by 07lilmama1108 at 7:10 PM on Sep. 11, 2009

  • dh and i fought thismorning, and when he came home for lunch, i had already read about the cafemom's dh's accident. i had a nice lunch prepared and was super glad to see him. it makes things seem so trivial. so yes, i will be holding my dh a little tighter tonight.
    dayziesnrozes

    Answer by dayziesnrozes at 7:15 PM on Sep. 11, 2009

  • One of my dear friends husband is lying in a hospital bed with cancer right now. I know exactly what you mean. Every night I hold my husband a little tighter, and try to appreciate him more all day.
    ohwrite

    Answer by ohwrite at 7:57 PM on Sep. 11, 2009

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