I was talking to a girl at work, who's engaged. She said her fiancee is gonna take some work. I told her, after 21 years of marriage, that men don't get married husband material. They have to be gently molded into a husband, at least, most do. One of the guys took offense to that. He said he was not like that when he got married. I told him to ask his wife. He came back the next day,and said she totally agreed with me,and that she had to do alot of work on him to get him where he is now! So, I thought I'd bring it to you all. Did you have to work on your husband? Or, was he pretty good when you married? I don't mean helping around the house, being considerate,things like that. Some are,not all. My DH was a bachelor for 10 years before we got married,and had alot of habits I had to work on. Not break him totally,but make him a little more tolerable. What's your take on it all. Be respectful, PLEASE!Answer Question
Answer by EireLass at 10:11 AM on Sep. 12, 2009
Hmm, I have only been married a year (together for 5). But I think my husband settled me down and I settled my husband down. I guess we kind of molded each other. I can't say when we first met I was good wife material, lol.
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Darling, I think for the first time we agree on something lol. My man was a good husband when I married him but he still needed a little subtle tweaking here and there.
Unfortunately I think he has done a little tweaking himself. Sneaky bugger!
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